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My name is Charles Linden and I had Emetophobia for over 27 years and I elminated it. I have since helped many thousands of people just like you to do the same and this website and the educational organisation behind it is the vehicle for recovery that we have put together over 19 years.
I know how it feels to:
Emetophobia is due partly, to an anxiety reaction created by experiencing vomiting and partly to the production of the inherent nausea caused by anxiety. Do you see how this cycle of ‘fear producing nausea which produces fear’ can develop into Emetophobia?
Most anxiety sufferers with this inappropriate fear of vomiting (emetophobia) rarely do, they just feel like they might and it is this apprehension of what MIGHT happen which exacerbates the symptoms.
BUT emetophobia is an anxiety symptom and not a separate condition! Emetophobia is also an obsessive condition, the sufferers makes this fear such an immense issue that it dominates their lives.
ALL PHOBIAS ARE SYMPTOMS OF AN ANXIETY DISORDER… because, if you weren’t anxious, you wouldn’t experience the phobia and you SHOULDN’T be frightened of things that don’t pose any risk to you. The same is true of Emetophobia.
So how do you stop the cycle and remove your Emetophobia?
In order to recover from your Emetophobia, you must remove the anxiety disorder that causes the nausea and the fear of vomiting (Emetophobia) and by doing so, you halt the fear cycle. This in turn removes your Emetophobia, which reduces your anxiety etc. a positive cycle is produced.
Mark lay in his bed for nearly 12 months before he started The Linden Method, his fear of vomiting was obsessive and inappropriate, Emetophobia stopped him from leading a full life or working, his relationship was ruined and he couldn’t even attempt to see a time when he could be free from his Emetophobia.
Within 1 hour of starting our program, he was back on his feet… why?
Because the relief he experienced immediately from understanding his Emetophobia and understanding his anxiety created immediate relief from his inappropriate fear of vomiting. Within days he was out and about, working and rebuilding his life.
We can quickly show you how to stop this fear of vomiting (Emetophobia), overcome your inappropriate anxiety and return to a life NOT ruled by your fears.
Our system will show you how, by removing the anxiety, you can be free from your fear of vomiting as quickly as Mark was. Emetophobia is a symptom of your underlying anxiety disorder, we will show you how to remove it right away.
or you can join The Linden Method and access all the materials you will need to overcome your Emetophobia including unlimited support from our qualified experts.
From 1970, maybe even before that, till 1997, I was a sufferer. I experienced a constant sense of impending doom, a sense of frailty, a constant sense that the world would swallow me up… I was terrified most of the time. At school, I was timid, shy, looked sad and didn’t feel part of the crowd. I had chrnoic hayfever, exercise and hayfever related astham and was overweight. I knew I was ‘different’ but what was I supposed to do about it? I had no idea what was wrong with me or that something was wrong with me at all… I just thought that I was feeling what every other lad felt.
People say to me all the time that stating that we provide ‘recovery’ and ‘the cure’ is misinformation because anxiety can’t be cured, it’s an emotion… how wrong they are.
To explain this in simple terms that everyone can understand – “we all need to defecate, but no one needs diarrhoea” – Does that make sense?
Fear is an emotion… anxiety is the inappropriate manifestation of fear. So fear can’t be cured because it’s an important and incurable emotion but anxiety is a ‘disorder’ for want of a better word!
It’s so easy for people to misinterpret the outward symptoms of an anxiety disorder, to align anxiety alongside mental illness, to prescribe medication, to undermine a person’s sense of wellness with talk of ‘anxiety management’ and ‘coping strategies’.
Then there are the resources – CBT, counselling, psychiatry, online forums, charities – which of these provide curative treatments? Which move people out of negative environments, negative thought patterns, negative verbal exchanges? None. They all promote constant, conscious focus on the condition, the dilema they cause and the ‘thoughts’ associated with the conditions… but none switch off the inappropriate fear.
So when clients come to us desperate after years of all these, they are untrusting. They are often disconnected from the concept of change or recovery and they are often at a point where they have moved past desperation and are now resigned to a life of constant fear, medication and symptoms.
I was that person too once.
Since 1997 we have helped so many people to understand that this is not their fate and within days, have shown them that recovery is, not only, possible but also the normal, expected and definite product of the program I developed.
I have never seen someone fail to recover. Never. The only ones who do fail are the ones that don’t do it… but that’s not failure, that’s either disbelief or negativity.
We do all we can to show people the overwhelming evidence that what we do will help them… you’ll find some of that evidence on this website… and if they still doubt us, I suggest they go off and ask any psychologist or psychotherapist working in practice, to show them their evidence for curative outcomes… when they come back to us, we will then help them, secure in the knowledge that they not only believe in us, but will also comply and recover with our assistance.
Birds of a Feather and Loose Women’s Linda Robson talks about her son Louis’ anxiety, agoraphobia and OCD and his recovery using our programme in this Woman Magazine article.
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This is such a difficult question to answer because none of us has the ability to climb into someone elses head and see the world from their perspective but there are benchmarks and traits we all perceive in others that give us vital indicators as to whether to believe in the people we meet.
In any therapeutic process, it is vital that the people involved are open and honest, that they are respectful and clear about their intentions, abilities and reassurances.
There are so many people out there in the world who are protected by their accreditations, qualifications and positions who also abuse those things, become obsessed with their own sense of self-importance and forget that the focus of any practitioner SHOULD be on the patient, the patient’s wellbeing and the patient’s future.
Do you trust people just because you SHOULD or because you have been told to… is the trust based on social conditioning or trust based on FACT?
So many people are in it for the money. Yes, they have to earn a living but they should KNOW that what they do produces results, that those results are measurable, that patients are happy and satisfied at the end of the process and that all of the positive outcomes are publicised and visible for the world to see. How many comments and testimonials do you see on Drs, psychologists, psychiatrists and psychotherspist websites?
You see, we live in a very ‘data rich’ world now. People are very happy to publicise their private lives online and off. Most people ‘self’ promote’ happily, with vigour, but still you see very little evidence from patients and practitioners that what they have experienced has cured them… I reserve comment on why that might be.
Meanwhile, increasingly, some practitioners have become very open, public and vocal about how they see other practitioners, practices and techniques. Just this morning I was on Twitter and saw tweets from a very respected Dr of psychology calling other practitioners/practices ‘quacks’ and writing very damaging, scathing and even, potentially litigious, comments about other people, just because what they do is disagreeable to him… because it’s better than he provides or because it’s worse??? Would YOU trust this man?
ETHICS – INTEGRITY
We don’t always get it right… as humans we have a responsibility to do and be the best we can be… we do sometimes get it wrong… but ethical behaviour is vital and means that trust is far easier to generate. If you get it wrong, say so and apologise (if appropriate) but never state untruths or carry on regardless when you know, or suspect that, what you are doing is wrong.
The proof all pudding is in the eating… in the same way as people say ‘there is no smoke without fire’, there is also very often a case that massive independent support for a person, organisation or offering is there because it provides people with what they need despite what others might think or say.
We, as an organisation, have a policy of open, clear values. We invite debate. We love what we do and we do it with the very best intentions.
Every day we receive Tweets, Facebook messages, emails and calls from people asking why we talk about ‘recovery’ when they have been told that anxiety recovery is impossible.
The other point raised constantly is why we state that ‘sufferers don’t need support, they need curative support’… and there really is a massive chasm between the two.
It’s amazing the ‘spin’ put on diagnosis, treatment and the language used around perceived mental illness and especially high anxiety conditions.
There is some very clear responsibility to me to explain the truth behind these statements so that these misunderstandings can be overcome quickly and our patients and indeed, all sufferers can find the solution they need and move on with their lives.
Here is my explanation in simple bulleted points:
With reference to support versus curative support…
With reference to using the word recovery…
No one can change human biology dictated by human evolution and programmed through millennia of environmental conditioning… just because psychology uses a process doesn’t mean that the process is correct, indeed, millions, possibly even billion sod people who have suffered from high anxiety conditions will openly describe their journey and the lack of curative success they endured at the hands of medication and psychological practice.
It’s not the practitioner’s fault – it’s the fault of misplaced science and people who developed treatment methodologies, not based on fact, but on saleable practice models.
The science of talking therapies doesn’t ‘add up’, it has never conformed to neuroscience or even the findings of those people responsible for the building blocks of psychology.
The proof of any process is in the outcome of the methodology used and the outcomes of what we at the Centre achieve curatively is more than absolute evidence that we have got it right!
Coronation Street actress, Kate Ford, contacted Charles Linden asking for assistance with overcoming her long-standing anxiety and panic attacks. Kate did The Linden Method Home Learning programme and overcame her disorder. Above, Kate has Tweeted about her success with the programme which she also spoke about in newspapers and magazines.